Overcoming Setbacks

Posted: 3rd May 2010 by Lisa in Improvisation
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Anyone who has ever been involved in the Performing Arts will tell you that it is not all glory and adulation. Even people who are now big stars will have MANY stories of disappointment and rejection throughout their career. It is what we choose to make of these experiences that ultimately determines whether we continue or not.

I guess it’s apt for me to be writing on this topic today as I just had a disappointing experience myself. Last night I performed in the Australian National Theatresports Championships (competitive improv), but my team had a less than stellar evening, getting eliminated early on. It was tough because we really wanted to have a great night but it just didn’t pan out for us. Of course in the 24 hours since the show finished, I’ve thought of about a million ways I could have done things differently (and I’m sure my team-mates have too).  In the end, though, I chose to do the following:

- look back on it as just ‘one of those nights’

- remember that every improviser I know has had a night like this at some point in their career

- acknowledge that this one experience does not define who I am nor what I am capable of as a performer

and

- MOVE ON!

I do realise though, that it’s not just onstage disappointments that can affect us as performers. For some people, harsh criticism and negative comments from peers or teachers can cause them to question what they are doing. For others, it is a lack of support (real or perceived) from the artistic company or community that causes them to give up. It is in these instances that your self-awareness & self-belief need to come into play (and if you haven’t read my blog on self-awareness, go back and read it now!).

If you really want to perform and you love it, then you will find ways to do it. Here are some actions I would suggest:

- If you feel like there is a lack of support from the improv community you have joined, find out who is in charge and see if they can help. It could be that you were just looking to the wrong people.

- If you are not getting cast in shows but really want to perform, find a group of like-minded people and put on your own shows! Pay an experienced performer to coach your group so you get better while you perform.

- If you can afford it, travel to different cities and take classes with another group. Many companies have week-long intensive courses that give you some great experience, as well as exposure to different teaching styles and ideas.

- Keep taking classes, studying improv and working on your craft so that when opportunities do arise, you feel prepared and ready to seize them!

If you have any specific questions or problems you are encountering please comment below and I will do my best to help you out.

Lisa x

  1. Erin says:

    Hey Lisa,
    Although your team may not have had the best night on Sunday, The amazing scenes from your guys last stint at the Enmore for Cranston Grand are still so strong in my mind. The scene in which you rode in on a terry dactyl… Brilliant! And I guess another good thing that came of Sunday night, is that for all those newbies in the audience like myself – it is encouraging to know that even the best of the best have not so good nights too. Which of course will help us from being negative and destructive about ourselves when we have those nights. Thanks for the blog! Erin

  2. Natasha says:

    Oh my goodness, I left just before the elimination to get to the 3 female toilets… came back and was SHOCKED that you guys had been turfed! I didn’t see you having a bad night at all, you were brilliant, and it was disappointing that the numbers just didn’t reflect that :(

  3. Phil Willis says:

    Hey Lisa

    Sorry to hear you had a rough night. Although a bad night for you would be a dream run for a lot of improvisors!

    So much of performing is having the confidence to get back on the horse and go again.

    Is there maybe a future post on “confidence” and how to nuture and maintain it in the future? Would love to see it.

    Cheers
    –Phil

  4. Kris says:

    Hi Lisa – I’m a musician with ImproMafia and Theatresports in Brisbane. Our guys were also knocked out after the third round. I was chatting with one of them the other night – although they were disappointed to only perform in a few games, by all accounts lots of the teams (including NSW) were doing a great job of jumping up and supporting other teams during their games. Getting knocked out doesn’t mean you didn’t contribute and have a great night!

    I’m enjoying the blog – you have a new subscriber, and I’m looking forward to future posts :)

    -Kris